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My Rebbe, Rav Moshe Sternbuch

In case you were wondering why I have all of these articles written by Rav Moshe Sternbuch, he is my Rebbe, and one of the gedolei hador (greatest Rabbis of our generation).

Rav Sternbuch fully endorses me and supports my mentorship program.

He is the address for all of my halachic or hashkafic (practical and philosophical) questions that I or my students may have.

The articles are based on his weekly talks on the Torah portion that the Rav gives in Jerusalem in his kollel. As a member of the kollel I get first dibbs on the photocopies and I type them up for my blog so you can all benefit from the Rav's erudition and insight.
Friday, July 6, 2012

We cannot know better than Hashem


By Rav Moshe Sternbuch


Submitting to the will of Hashem

Send men that that they may spy out the land of Canaan (13:2) Rashi: Why is the section dealing with the spies juxtaposed to the section dealing with Miriam? Because she was punished for matters of slander, for speaking against her brother, and these wicked people witnessed it, but did not learn their lesson.

The medrash quoted by Rashi seems difficult to understand, since the spies spoke slanderously about a country, not about a person.

In fact, the main thrust of their argument was that although Eretz Yisroel was a wonderful country, the nation was not on a high enough level to live there in a natural fashion, and, as for living miraculously, it would be difficult to maintain a consistently high level of conduct that would make the nation worthy of direct constant divine protection. They therefore concluded that it would not be worthwhile to conquer the country, notwithstanding its superior qualities.

Similarly, Miriam had the highest respect and was in awe of Moshe Rabbeinu, but she felt that even though her brother had come as close as possible to becoming an angelic being, since he was after all human, and the ultimate greatness of a human being is to sanctify his physical aspects rather than negate them, he should not have separated altogether from his wife.

The mistake made both by Miriam and the meraglim was that they should have submitted themselves totally to the will of Hashem, and disregarded any theories of their own that contradicted that express Will, however reasonable they might seem.

Fighting for our principles

And Moshe called Hoshea the son of Nun Yehoshua (13:16). Rashi: He prayed on his behalf, “May Hashem save you from the counsel of the spies”.

The Targum Yonoson says that it was when Moshe saw his modesty that he called Hoshea Yehoshua. What is the connection between Yehoshua’s modesty and Moshe Rabbeinu’s prayers stemming from his fear that Yehoshua would be influenced by the counsel of the spies?

Moshe Rabbeinu realized that someone with excessive modesty is likely to reach a compromise with those who seek to go against the Will of Hashem. He therefore changed Hoshea’s name to Yehoshua in the hope that this would grant him the required fortitude to fight the majority view of the meragalim.

This teaches us that even though we must be aware that the results of our actions depend on Hashem, it is His desire that we should do whatever is within our power to stand up for Torah principles, and when we have to fight for such principles, we have to shed any inappropriate modesty.

Relying on Hashem

And the people wept on that night (14:1)

This episode is difficult to understand. How could the entire congregation have said, "If only we had died in the land of Egypt, or if only we had died in this desert. Why does Hashem bring us to this land to fall by the sword etc.”?

Although they were gedolei yisroel the meraglim did not trust in Hashem's promises and wanted to live a natural existence. When we distance ourselves from Hashem, he distances Himself from us, leaving us to our own devices. The more we trust Hashem, the more does He protect us: “He who trusts in Hashem is surrounded by mercy”.

On the national level, if we live with the realization that Hashem rules the world down to the last detail, we will merit siyata dishmaya, but if we think that everything is dependent on natural causes, that siyata dishmaya will be removed. On the personal level, chazal tell us that were it not for Hashem's assistance, we would not be able to withstand our daily struggles with the evil inclination. It is only when our fortitude is coupled with an awareness of the indispensability of divine assistance that we can vanquish the yetzer horo.

Miraculous bread

But you shall not rebel against Hashem, and you should not fear the people of that land for they are [as] our bread (14:9)

Why did Yehoshua and Kolev choose to use the simile of bread?

The “bread” in the wilderness was mon, and Yehoshua and Kolev were telling the nation that just as their basic sustenance came in the form of a miracle, so too Hashem would surely allow them to enter Eretz Yisroel with miracles, and they must not be disheartened by the statements made by the meraglim.

Palace of the King

They arose early in the morning and ascended to the mountain top, saying, "We are ready to go up to the place of which Hashem spoke, for we have sinned” (14:40)

On the face of it, the ma’apilim who tried to forcibly enter Eretz Yisroel merely intended to rectify the sin of the mergalim. Why, then, were they killed by the amoleikim and the Canaanites who came down and smote them?

Their mistake lay in thinking that Hashem had given us Eretz Yisroel for the sake of ruling over it, whereas in reality Hashem wanted us to enter the country which enjoys special divine providence only if we would be imbued with complete faith and emuno. The ma’apilim felt that the overriding priority was for us to have our own country at all costs. Moshe warned them: "Why do you transgress the word of Hashem? It will not succeed”, but they would not listen. We had to spend another forty years in the desert before reaching the level required to live in the Palace of the King.

Those of us fortunate enough to live here must never lose sight of the elevated behavior which we are expected to maintain in this country, which Hashem cares for, and Whose eyes are always upon it from the beginning of the year until the end of the year.

Heretical thoughts

And if you should err and not fulfill all these commandments (15:22)

Rashi brings that the transgression involved is that of idolatry. The parsha goes on to enumerate that first a korbon olo has to be brought, followed by a korbon chatos. Normally a chatos precedes an olo. Why is the order different here?

A korbon olo atones for sinful thoughts, and the general rule is that a thought is not considered a sinful act requiring atonement. Idolatry, however, is different. It is considered so severe that even an idolatrous thought is deemed to be the equivalent of a punishable act (see Maseches Kiddushin 39b). Therefore, for all other aveiros a chatos is brought before an olo, since a chatos atones for actions, but in the case of avodo zoro since sinful thoughts are already sins in and of themselves so that an olo has to be brought first to atone for them, and only then a chatos to atone for the additional sin of physical acts of avodo zoro.

This teaches us how careful we have to be to avoid any material containing heretical ideas, which are so prevalent nowadays.

Sinning for the sake of heaven

They found a man gathering sticks on Shabbos (15:32)

Chazal tell us that Zlofchod’s motives were leshem shomayim. He was willing to die in order to demonstrate to the rest of the nation that even though they were due to die in the desert anyway following the sin of the meraglim, they still had to keep the whole Torah. Due to his worthy motive, his name is omitted from the parasha, unlike the megadef. However, Zlofchod did not consult with Moshe Rabbeinu, and was punishable by death like any other mechalel Shabbos. So-called zealousness that goes against the halocho or daas Torah is sinful, irrespective of any worthy motives.

Holiness not a prerequisite for commencing observance
         
   You shall remember all the commandments of Hashem and perform them, and you shall not go after your hearts and after your eyes after which you are going astray… and you shall be holy to Hashem (15:39-40)

On the personal level, the possuk tells us not to go after our hearts and eyes, and only then to be "holy to Hashem". Holiness cannot be attained unless we first divest ourselves of heretical thoughts and immoral behavior and thoughts.

On the other hand, for those engaging in outreach the correct approach is to first encourage the not-yet observant to observe practical mitzvos, even if they still suffer from a lack of emuno and kedusho, and then instruct them to improve in those areas until they eventually become "holy". For this reason, the Torah first says "and you shall remember the commandments of Hashem, and perform them”, and only then "and you shall not go after your hearts and your eyes", and finally: “and you shall be holy to Hashem”. 
Thursday, June 14, 2012

Types of Emuno


By Rav Moshe Sternbuch


Pride of Bnei Torah
           
Let them cause a razor to pass over all their flesh (8:7). Rashi: Since they [the leviyim] were submitted in atonement for the firstborn who had practiced idolatry [when they worshipped the golden calf], which is called sacrifices to the dead - and one afflicted with tzaora’as is considered dead - they required shaving like those afflicted with tzaora’as

It is difficult to understand why the Leviyim had to be shaved, and not the firstborn, and, in any case, we also do not find anywhere that idol worshippers are shaved.

A metzora who speaks loshon horo is sent out of the camp and shaved so that he will become repulsive and other people will keep a distance from him. That way he will learn to bridle his speech and refrain from speaking loshon horo in the future. Similarly, the Leviyim had to shave their hair in order to look different from the rest of the nation. Since they were the recipients of ma’asros and other gifts some members of the nation are likely to consider them to be "parasites" living off other people. By shaving their heads the Leviyim are given the message that they must be willing to endure humiliation like a metzora, and must not let this affect their pride at being servants of Hashem who are responsible for the nation’s continued existence against all the odds.

Nowadays, as the Rambam tells us, anyone who dedicates his life to Torah acquires the status of a ben Levi, and they too must have the confidence and positive pride to be able to swim against the tide of public opinion, and against warped ideologies and materialism. Only daas Torah guides their actions, regardless of the reactions of people around them.

Moving and stationary Torah

When the oron travelled, Moshe said: "Rise up Hashem, and let Your enemies be scattered; and let those who hate You flee before You (10:35) 
And when it rested, he said: Return, Hashem, to the tens of thousands of the families of Yisroel (10:36) 

The gemoro (Shabbos 116a) says that these two pessukim constitute two separate parashiyos in their own right, and for this reason two inverted nuns appear before and after them, so that they must be conveying a message of fundamental importance.

It is only when the oron, i.e. the Torah, travels, only when it is being disseminated to distant quarters, to all Jews around the globe, that the Jewish nation is worthy of defeating its enemies and having them flee before them. It is only when bnei Torah are concerned not only for themselves, but for the whole nation, that we are saved from misfortunes. It turns out that outreach is a recipe not only for spiritual growth, but also for our physical survival.

However, for the shechino to remain with us, we must ensure that the oron rests, i.e. that the Torah remains concentrated in and focused on its main abode, the Yeshivos and Kollelim.  Without them the nation has no hope of surviving.

indivisible Torah
      
      This was the form of the menorah: hammered work of gold, from its base to its flower it was hammered work (8:7)

The menorah was chiseled from one whole unit rather than being made piece by piece and then connected together. Since the menorah is a symbol of the Torah this may be taken as a reference to its indivisibility. Just like a soldier does not have any discretion to decide which orders to obey, so too the soldiers of Hashem cannot pick and choose between different types of mitzvos, because they all have the same divine source.

The entire menorah, including its base and flowers, were part of the chiseled unit. This indicates that hidur mitzvah, the beautification of mitzvos by observing them in accordance with all their details and embellishments, are part and parcel of the performance of the mitzvah itself.

Early retirement
   
         From the age of fifty he shall retire from the service of the work, and do no more work (8:25). Rashi: the work of carrying on the shoulders; however, he can return to [the work of] locking the gates, singing, and loading the wagons

Why does Rashi refer to the work of locking the gates, and not opening them? We can understand this on the basis of the statement by the Chofetz Chaim zt”l , who said that anyone who has reached the age of 50 has to slacken his interest in worldly matters to some extent, and to prepare himself for the world which is completely good. In addition to "locking" neila also means “closing”. Hence, Rashi’s reference to locking the gates may be taken as an allusion to the work required to be intensified as we reach the age of 50 and enter the closing stage of our lives.

Chesed
      
      He shall minister with his brethren [literally: he shall serve his brethren] in the Tent of Meeting to keep the charge, but he shall not perform the service (8:26)

Sometimes a person’s main task in this world is to serve his brethren by performing charitable deeds and the like. A charity overseer once told Rav Yosef Chaim Sonnenfeld zt”l that he had decided to resign from his position and dedicate his life to learning Torah. So far from expressing his delight, Rav Sonnenfeld responded that the gemara says that a levi with the job of singing, who instead serves as a gatekeeper, is subject to death by the hands of heaven (Masseches Arachin 11b).

Just like the work of the leviyim was divided between gatekeepers, guards and singers, so too some people are required to dedicate their entire lives to Torah, whereas others are supposed put a greater emphasis on other aspects of avodas Hashem. The main thing is that everybody's intention should be to perform the will of our Father in Heaven. Rav Sonnenfeld told this person that he must continue with his current activities.  

Yisro
        
    And you shall be to us (instead of) eyes (10:31). Rashi: you shall enlighten us [with your guidance].

We would have thought that the generation of the wilderness had no shortage of zekeinim to enlighten and guide them. Why did they need Yisro?

One possibility is that righteous proselytes and baalei teshuva who cleave to Hashem following their intellectual searches are in a better position to teach the rest of the nation about intellectual faith and serving Hashem with our intellect than those who have been educated from childhood to follow in the path of Hashem and who have become accustomed to it. This may be what chazal had in mind when they stated that baalei teshuva are superior to tzaddikim.

Similarly, nowadays we find that many of those involved in outreach are themselves baalei teshuva originally, and this is only natural because they are best qualified to engage in these activities.

Rav Sternbuch heard an alternative explanation from the late Satmarer Rebbe, Rav Yoel zt”l. Yisro grew up amongst non-Jews, and had been one of Paroh’s advisers. He was therefore very conversant with the outlook and mentality of the erev rav, which were now having such a negative influence on the Jews and giving them so much trouble and he was therefore best qualified to advise the nation about how to deal with them.

Simple Faith
     

      Not so is My servant Moshe; he is faithful in all My house (12:7).
        
    Moshe Rabbeinu, the greatest of the prophets, remained faithful “in all My house”, i.e. in all matters relating to avodas Hashem he maintained pure and simple faith performing mitzvos without seeking to comprehend them with his intellect. Similarly, the Baal Shem Tov zt”l would say that after everything he had attained, he wished to serve Hashem with simple faith.
          
      The Chosid Yaavetz, who was born in Spain and was forced to leave during the Expulsion in 1492, wrote that during the period of the Inquisition the Jewish philosophers were the first to convert or to become Marranoes, whereas the non-intellectual population, imbued with simple faith, refused to succumb. The philosophers just used their philosophical knowledge to rationalize their actions. Whilst there is room for a philosophical appreciation of Hashem’s existence, for example in the context of outreach work as we have just seen, experience shows that simple emuno is the higher level to strive for.


Vanquishing Evil


By Rav Moshe Sternbuch


Yichus

Take a census of the sons of Gershon, of them too, following their fathers' houses, according to their families (4:21)

The fathers' houses must be according to their families, i.e. someone with an illustrious ancestry must live up to the greatness of his ancestors. Yichus imposes obligations and should primarily inspire us to become aware of our own inherent potential greatness and of the ramifications of failing to realize it.

The Shlo Hakodosh comments that the possuk towards the end of the tochocho in Bechukosay “then will I remember My covenant with Yaakov, and also My covenant with Yitzchok, and also My covenant with Avrohom will I remember” is not a reference to the merit of our forefathers, but, on the contrary, a reminder of our failure to emulate their deeds, which resulted in the calamities foretold in that parsha.

AVODO

From the age of thirty years and upward until the age of fifty years, who are fit to perform the service for the service (laavod es avodas avodo) (4:47)

How are we to understand the phrase avodas avodo? Superficially, someone who carries the poles of the oron does not seem to be performing a divine service of obvious importance, but in reality this act is suffused with major kedusho, because any act enabling an avoda to be performed is itself an act of avodo.
In the same vein, we see with the poro adumo that atonement is achieved even by means of something as seemingly insignificant as the ashes of the cow, because any object used to perform the will of Hashem per se acquires fundamental significance.

Unintentional sins

When a man or woman commits any of the sins against man to act treacherously against Hashem (5:6)

Even sins committed inadvertently are considered to be treacherous acts which stain the soul and require atonement. The Vilna Gaon explains that this is because Hashem arranges events in such a manner that a person will commit an inadvertent act because his soul has already been damaged due to an intentional sin committed previously, even in a different area. Had he not committed the previous sin, Hashem would have saved him from the current unintentional pitfall.

MINUS

Then the kohen shall write these curses on a scroll and erase it in the bitter water (5:23)

The medrash says if it is permitted to erase the name of Hashem for the sake of making peace between husband and wife, all the more so is it permitted to erase books by minim (people who deny the fundamental articles of faith) even if they contain the names of Hashem, because they create hostility towards the Creator.

The din of the soto is a novelty, because, normally speaking, a woman does not become forbidden to her husband merely because she secluded herself with another person, and it is only because of the severe impact that immorality has on the sanctity of the nation that a special gezeiras hakosuv makes the soto forbidden until she drinks the bitter water even though it is very likely that she did not commit actual adultery.

Similarly, books written by minim must be destroyed even at the expense of erasing the divine name, and even though there does not appear to be any obvious fault with the contents, because the danger of minus is very great, especially when it is wrapped up in various garbs of supposed kedusha. Only gedolei yisroel, using their unsullied and unbiased judgment, are in a position to decide what we must keep a distance from and we must obey their rulings.

Minus includes publications such as newspapers (even nominally religious ones) which convey the impression that the world is run by politicians or the laws of nature, rather than by Hashem, and scientific works written by minim, even if they contain no manifest minus.

The effect of nezirus

And after this, the nozir may drink wine (6:20)

Once the nozir has completed all the actions annulling his status as a nozir it seems obvious that he reverts to his former status and may once again drink wine, so this phrase seems superfluous.

The Avnei Nezer suggests that we might have thought that since the nozir initially took a vow to abstain altogether from wine because he realized the detrimental effects which his addiction to wine was having on him, he should continue his period of total abstention, even after he stops being a nozir. The possuk therefore emphasizes that the experience of keeping the halochos of nezirus with all the associated humiliation, is sufficient to wean him from this weakness and he may now drink wine – within halachik boundaries - without hesitation.

Dependency on torah

This is how you shall bless the bnei yisroel (6:23)

Hashem decided that we need the blessings of the kohanim for the sake of both our spiritual and our material welfare. At the time of the Beis Hamikdosh the kohanim represented the elite of the nation, the talmidei chachomim. Since the churbon the nation has become dependent, in addition, on the merits afforded by talmidei chachomim and bnei Torah as a whole.

At a time of sundry internal and external problems the issue that seems to evoke the greatest consensus amongst politicians in Eretz Yisroel is the drafting of yeshiva bochurim to the army. How tragic it is that they do not realize the extent of their folly. Without Torah there can be no question of any continued survival in this country. They may attribute their supposed achievements to the strength of their own handiwork, the skill and power of the army etc., but that is all a mere delusion.

TWO TYPES OF PEACE

 May Hashem… protect you [Sifri: from the evil inclination] … and grant you peace (6:24-26)

A person who is dominated by his evil inclination and subjugated to his desires can enjoy no peace. This brocho of peace at the end of the birkas kohanim is a blessing for protection from the yetzer horo and freedom from the captivity of the desires with which it seeks to allure us.

The Baal Haturim (parashas Toldos 25:25) notes that Eisov has the same gematria as sholom. The Avnei Nezer explains that there are two ways of attaining peace. Eisov achieved peace by not engaging in any battles whatsoever with the evil inclination, with the result that it did not bother chasing him at all, and they concluded a bogus "peace pact".

The righteous, on the other hand, achieve genuine peace only after incessant battles with the yetzer horo. Although even the righteous cannot vanquish the evil inclination in this world, and in fact their ever-increasing greatness is dependent on their battles with it, the blessing of the kohen is that the righteous should be successful in these battles to such an extent that by using the power of their good inclination they are completely victorious in one area, so that they can move on to another areas, thus increasing their nekudas habechira (see Michtav Mi’eliyohu) perpetually.

Unique contributions

One nosi each day, one nosi each day, shall present his offering for the dedication of the altar (7:11)

The Torah is usually very sparse with its words. Numerous details of halocho such as hilchos Shabbos are encapsulated in a few words. Why, then, in the parashas henesi’im are the korbonos of each nosi repeated in such great detail?

If we picture a minyan davening shmone eisre in mincha together everyone appears to be performing the same act. Everyone is saying the same words. However, in shomayim each person's mincha bears no resemblance whatsoever to his neighbour’s. One person may be praying with total concentration following years of avoda dedicated to controlling his thoughts, whereas the next person may still be struggling unsuccessfully with his level of concentration. A third person may not even be struggling, but merely mouthing the words.

The nesi’im were obviously all men of immense stature, but even they were not clones of each other. Each one had a unique personality and contribution to make to the avoda of the korbonos. By describing their korbonos at such great length, the Torah is teaching us that it is each person's input into the external act of a mitzvah which constitutes its main component. The joy and dedication accompanying mitzvos are the elements which elevate them to superior levels in the upper worlds and completely change their effect and how they are viewed in shomayim.

Thursday, May 24, 2012

Remaining Strong in our Faith


 By Rav Moshe Sternbuch


Growing in Torah

“If you walk in My statutes” (26:3) Rashi: “You shall toil in Torah."

Angels are static, but we are supposed to be constantly on the move. Each day something new should inspire us to reach ever higher levels of avodas Hashem. Only those who toil in the study of Torah can truly experience this. Its beauty and unfathomable depth enable our souls to grow correspondingly.

It is shuddering to think that this requirement of constant growth is one of the conditions for the fulfillment of the various rewards enumerated subsequently in the pessukim and therefore its absence can result in the fulfillment of the curses chas vesholom. It is incumbent upon us to endeavor to strengthen our dedication to Torah and thus increase kedusha in our lives on a daily basis.

HINTS of ETERNAL REWARD

“And I will give your rains in their time” (26:4)

The Rishonim ask why the Torah does not explicitly mention the spiritual rewards and punishments of the World to Come. (See the Kli Yokor on 26:12 who summarizes seven different answers suggested by the Rishonim.)
        
         If the Torah would have specified the severe long-term spiritual ramifications of not keeping the Torah properly, this would have increased the claim against those who nevertheless fail to take note of the severity of sinning to such an extent as to endanger the very existence of the nation. For this reason, Hashem, in His mercy, wanted to conceal the main reward and punishment awaiting us. Moreover, this way, the reward of those who keep His Word even without knowing the full extent of the reward awaiting them will be incalculably greater than any reward that would have been their due had they known all the details of the rewards and punishments in the afterlife.
      
         For the same reason Tisha Be’av is called a moed after chatzos, because that was when the Beis Hamikdosh was destroyed completely, and the punishment of sinners became less intense because there was no longer the same source of inspiration which was afforded to the nation by the Beis Hamikdosh.
        
         However, we can understand this issue through another approach. The Vilna Gaon zt”l was once sitting and learning when a wagon driver knocked on the door begging for food and complaining of the difficulties of making a living. After the unfortunate man had been fed by his host, he sighed: “Life is treating me very harshly in this world, but at least in the World to Come, I will have it good”. The Vilna Gaon did not agree and responded that if life is so difficult in this world, all the more so do we have to work hard to attain eternal life through the merit of toiling in Torah and mitzvos.
       
         In a similar incident it is related that a Jew once came to the house of Rav Yechiel Michel of Zlotchov zt”l at night, cold and hungry. Looking around the house he noticed that it was warm and beautiful. If you are receiving your reward in this world, asked the guest, what will be left for you in the World to Come? The Maggid of Zlotchov replied: "I work day and night to merit eternal life, because there is no reward for mitzvos in this world, since nothing here can compare to the eternal world”.         
      
      The physical rewards promised by the Torah for keeping the mitzvos cannot be anything more than a drop in the ocean, mere “tips” or hints of the genuine eternal reward awaiting us in the afterlife.

DEFECTIVE FAITH

“And if you treat Me as happenstance (keri), and you do not wish to listen to Me” (26:21)

Many people believe in Hashem, but their faith is defective, because they do not truly believe that there is none other than Him, and that only He runs the world with divine individual providence with regard to each and every act. We are surrounded by alien non-Jewish or anti-Torah attitudes which attribute events to nature, politics, or pure chance. It takes a constant reinforcement of our faith for us to realize that Hashem is the Boss, and that even though His ways may be concealed, nothing takes place without His will.

In the tochocho the word keri is mentioned no less than seven times in close proximity, four times as a description of our behavior, and three times as a corresponding punishment by Hashem. Clearly this issue of attributing events to happenstance is something we should be working on.

SIMPLE FAITH

“And they will then confess their iniquity and the iniquity of their fathers, in their treachery which they committed against Me” (26:40)
      
    We would have thought that a confession of one's own iniquity and the iniquity of one’s fathers is a worthy thing. Why does it appear in the middle of a list of sins?

          Some baalei teshuva, or potential ones, are under the mistaken impression that they cannot rid themselves of the shackles of their background. They reason that since their parents are not believing or observant Jews, they cannot be better than them. This is totally incorrect. Avrohom Ovinu’s father served idols, but this did not prevent him from recognizing Hashem using his own intellect. We too do not need to be scientists to grasp that if the sun was just a tiny bit closer to the Earth, we would all be scorched to death, and if it was a tiny bit further removed from us, we would will all freeze to death, and countless other such examples pointing towards a Creator.

          A person cannot become a complete baal teshuva until he takes responsibility for his own actions. The possuk here calls a person to account for blaming his own way of life and outlook on the iniquities of his father.

HISTORICAL CYCLES

“I will not despise them nor will I reject them to annihilate them, thereby breaking My covenant with them, for I am Hashem their G-d” (26:44)
     
        The Meshech Chochmo on this possuk argues that Jewish history in golus consists of recurring cycles in which periods of destruction that come in the wake of spiritual low points are, in turn, followed by new renaissances. For example, the terrible persecutions of Tach Ve-tat (the Chmelnitzki Massacres of 1648-1649), were eventually followed by the works of such luminaries as Rabi Akiva Eger, the Chasam Sofer and the Nesivos.

          Although published posthumously in the inter-war period, Rav Meir Simcha zt”l (1843-1926) wrote the Meshech Chochmo during his youth. He not only famously predicted the destruction that would be wrought when people think that Berlin is Yerushalayim, but also the explosion of Torah that would take place in the decades following the Holocaust since “such has been the path followed by the Jewish nation from the time it started its wanderings [the destruction of the Beis Hamikdosh]”: periods of destruction followed by periods of renewal.

          The lesson to be derived for us in Eretz Yisroel is to be forever on our guard not to fawn to our erring brethren or to learn from their ways. Such conduct on our part will only cause us to be despised by them, and can lead chas vesholom to the need for Hashem to show us that “I am Hashem their G-d”. By this stage of our history we should already know better than to have to wait for signs of divine wrath before remaining strong and preserving our undiluted Torah heritage.

MOGEN AVROHOM

“Then will I remember My covenant with Yaakov, and also My covenant with Yitzchok, and also My covenant with Avrohom will I remember” (26:44)
    
      Why is the merit of Yaakov mentioned last? If the merit of Yaakov, the elite amongst our forefathers, is not sufficient to help the nation, how can the merit of the other two ovos help?

          This teaches us that if in the final generation we do not emulate the trait which characterized Yaakov, namely the study of Torah, and are not worthy of being redeemed in his merit, nor do we possess the trait which characterized Yitzchok, total self-sacrifice and dedication, we can at least be saved in the merit of Avrohom, by emulating his middo of chesed, both in physical matters, and- as we saw last week - in spiritual matters.

          This is the reason why we conclude the first blessing of the shmone esrei with mogen Avrohom: Hashem in his mercy is willing to protect us, even if we only possess this trait of Avrohom, chesed, and in the period leading up to the redemption our main prayers and merits revolve around chesed.
Wednesday, May 23, 2012

ACCELERATING THE GEULAH


 By Rav Moshe Sternbuch

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Sanctity of Eretz Yisroel

“Speak to Bnei Yisroel and say to them, when you come to the land which I give to you” (25:2).
            For the inhabitants of Eretz Yisroel who are on an appropriate spiritual level, the sanctity of Eretz Yisroel has a greatly impact on the quality of their Torah and mitzvos. However, the relationship between us and Eretz Yisroel is a mutual one: the sanctity of Eretz Yisroel is not static, but rather increases in proportion to the quantity and quality of mitzvos which we perform within it. By using the present tense: "when you come to the land" instead of the future, "when you will come to the land", the possuk is telling us that the sanctity of this land is in a constant state of flux. Although it is inherently holy, the extent of its holiness depends on us.

Eternal investments

“You shall count for yourself seven sabbatical years, seven years, seven times and it shall be for you, the days (period) of the seven sabbatical years, forty-nine years” (25:8).
            The Dubna Maggid zt”l brings the parable of a person presented with 10,000 cents. At first, he is overjoyed at the amount of coins in his possession, but then someone points out to him that he has been blinded by the sight of all those coins, and that in reality his “fortune" amounts to no more than $100.
            Similarly, some people imagine that the world belongs to them and that they will live forever. Even a middle-aged person who thinks about his parents who lived into their 80s and 90s, or considers the current average life expectancy, and then calculates how many days, months, or even years he is likely to have left in this world, may not feel that concentrating his energies on things of eternal value is something of immediate importance. However, if he starts thinking in terms of seven-year shemita units, he will realize that even in the far from certain event that all his statistical predictions will materialize, he still does not have that many time units left, and it is indeed high time to think of making suitable investments to enhance the quality of his eternal abode.   

HOnesty pAys

“You shall not cheat one another, and you shall fear your G-d.” (25:17).
            This prohibition appears in the middle of the section on shmitta. The mitzva of shmitta is meant to reinforce our faith that Hashem runs the world and that our efforts are not the real cause of our livelihood. If a businessman dishonestly claims that his goods are of the best quality or the cheapest, he is displaying a lack of such faith. He may make an easy profit in the short-term, but it is likely to be at the expense of trouble in the future, such as financial losses, health issues etc.
            Even if the fraudster intends to use his gains for worthy purposes, the possuk warns him not to chap, and to always remain honest. That way he will be worthy of receiving Hashem’s enduring blessings.       
            This aspect of business is often hidden from the eyes of friends and acquaintances, who may even think that the culprit is the epitome of honesty. Therefore, the possuk stresses: “and you shall fear your G-d”: remember that you will have to account for all your deeds to your Creator.

Chesed in learning

“If your brother becomes impoverished and his means fail with you, then you shall uphold him” (25:35)
            This mitzvah essentially concerns charity for the poor, but many people are impoverished not necessarily in a financial sense; they may be downtrodden for personal reasons or because they are not succeeding in their learning, and in need of a kind word and encouragement.
            The Avnei Nezer zt”l asks how the Bnai Yisroel observed the mitzvos of tzdoko and chesed in the wilderness where everybody's material needs were met through the mon. He answers that they taught each other Torah and wisdom, and that imparting knowledge is at least as worthy as parting with one's money for the sake of charity. In fact, someone who teaches and encourages others with less knowledge or capabilities than himself is fulfilling both the mitzvah of helping out his impoverished brother and the positive commandment of tzedoko.
            When Rav Sternbuch was in Yeshiva his rov, Rav Moshe Schneider zt”l insisted on the brighter students spending time helping out younger or less capable talmidim. He argued Torah must be accompanied by chesed, and someone interested only in his own Torah would not enjoy success in learning in the long term.

Bitochon and HIshtadlus

“You shall not take from him interest or usury” (25:36)
            The Kli Yokor explains that usually in business a person prays to Hashem that he will succeed in his endeavors, because he is uncertain whether his deal will succeed, but if someone lends with interest his income is seemingly fixed and certain, and he is less likely to realize his dependence on Hashem. That is why this prohibition is stated in juxtaposition to the mitzvah of shemita, because the essence of shemita too to is inculcate the mitzvah of bitochon.                    
            According to the Vilna Gaon zt”l we are permitted to refrain from making any effort whatsoever to gain a living, if our level of bitochon justifies it. That is how the Vilna Goan himself acted in his own life and Rav Schneider told Rav Sternbuch that he still knew people in Vilna who were the students of the students of the Vilna Gaon, who had absolute bitochon and enjoyed corresponding hashgocho.  
            Even though we are unlikely to reach such spiritual heights, and in any case, the Chovos Halevovos states that even on the ideal plane a person must make at least minimal efforts for parnosso, the fact that such people existed so close to our own times should still serve as a source of inspiration for us.

Lesson of the Yovel

“He shall reckon with the one who bought him from the year which he was sold to him until the jubilee year” (25:50)
            At the beginning of the yovel cycle, the redemption fee which the slave has to pay to redeem himself is high, but it becomes reduced as the years come closer to the yovel year. The Chofetz Chaim zt”l used this phenomenon to explain how we can expect Moshiach to come if he did not appear in earlier generations, which were on a much higher level than ours.
            Hashem fixed a time for our redemption, and the early generations needed lots of merits to accelerate it. We, on the other hand, who are so close to the final chapter of golus are not required to “pay such a large fee" to merit redemption. Hashem does not expect us to do more than our utmost, based on our own abilities and circumstances, to merit eternal freedom. "And the ransomed of Hashem shall return, and come with singing to Tziyon, and everlasting joy shall be upon their heads, they shall obtain gladness and enjoy, and sorrow and signing shall flee away” (Yeshaya 35:10).
Thursday, May 17, 2012

The Power of Prayer


By Rav Moshe Sternbuch

Divine justice


“After the death of two sons of Aharon, who brought an offering before Hashem and they died” (16:1). 
            Here the possuk makes it clear that Nodov and Avihu were punished for having entered the kodesh hakodoshim, but in parashas eikev it says “And at Aharon Hashem grew very angry to destroy him; I prayed for Aharon, too, at that time”. Chazal explain that possuk as follows: at the time of the chet hoeigel it was decreed that Aharon would be punished for his involvement in the chet through the death of all of his four sons, but Moshe Rabbeinu managed to mitigate the decree by means of his prayer, so that only two of his sons would die. The question though remains, did Nodov and Avihu die because of their own sin (whatever it was, depending on the different views in chazal) or because of their father’s sin?
            Sometimes a person may deserve to die, but his wife, children and students would suffer from his death. In a human court of law, if someone deserves to be handed down the death punishment, a judge or jury do not have discretion to consider the ramifications of the death penalty on the killed person’s family or friends. With us it says “The commandments of Hashem are true, they are righteous altogether” (Tehilim, 19:10). If those who are dependent on a person do not deserve to die, he remains alive for their sake.
            Similarly, the Brisker Rov zt”l asked what it means that Hashem is “full of lovingkindness and truth” (in the Thirteen Divine Attributes).  What sort of praise is it to state that Hashem does not lie? He answered that it means that His truth is just and fair towards all parties involved, something which a mortal system of justice is incapable of achieving.
            If Aharon would not have had a sin of his own to be held out against him, his sons would not have died despite their own sin, because their father would not have deserved to endure the suffering of losing his sons.
            On a related note, Rav Eliyohu Lopian zt”l told Rav Sternbuch several times that a person should engage in as many possible activities that benefit the public, so that even if he deserves to be punished, his punishment might be deferred because those who benefit from his activities do not deserve to be punished.

Fighting routine


“Speak to your brother Aharon that he not come at all times into the Holy…so that he not die, for in a cloud I shall appear on the Ark-cover”. (16:2). Rashi: “Because the revelation of My Shechinah is there, he should be careful not to accustom himself to enter”.
          
    The force of habit and routine weakens our ability to maintain a sense of excitement and awe, so that even Aharon Hakohen was forbidden to enter the kodesh hakodoshim at any time lest he become too accustomed to the intensity that pervaded it. Before entering he had to make sure that he felt an appropriate awareness of Hashem's presence there.

            Similarly, before praying we should endeavor to internalize the fact that we are about to pray before the King. “Hashem is close to all who call upon Him, to those who call upon Him in truth” (Tehilim, 145:18). Rav Eliyohu Lopian zt”l would note that since Hashem can read our thoughts they are equivalent to speech as far as Hashem is concerned, so if when we pray we are thinking of matters not connected to our current prayer, it is as if we are communicating in a garbled language with the Almighty. Hashem is close to those who call upon Him in truth, who seek closeness to Him and exclude extraneous thoughts as much as possible when they pray, thereby "speaking" in a language which He "understands".

            In general, our only hope of avoiding the tendency to perform mitzvos in a perfunctory manner is to treat each day as if we were born anew and approaching our avodas Hashem for the first time.

What To pray for


“No man shall be present in the Tent of Meeting when he comes in to atone” (16:17). 
            
     When the kohein godol was in the holiest place his thoughts were not meant to be concentrated exclusively on the requirements of his fellow men, but rather on the honor of Hashem and kiddush shem shomayim.

            The Chofetz Chaim zt”l offered a parable. There was once a King who wished to tour his kingdom to find out about the requirements of his subjects and do what he could to meet them. When he reached the Royal prison, each prisoner came with his own request. One asked for better food, the second one wanted more comfortable living accommodations, another one wanted to be allowed visitors more frequently and so on. The King agreed to each request. Finally, one prisoner said: "I would like to be released!” The King smiled broadly and said he agreed to this request too. Before he left he shouted at the remaining prisoners: "Fools, why did you not have the sense to make the same request?"

            We too pray for health, for a living, for nachas from our children and so on, instead of praying for the main thing: kvod shomayim (Heavenly honor) and an end to the golus. If we did so, all our other requests would automatically also be met.

Disregarding WHAT the Romans dO


“You shall not follow the practice of the Land of Egypt in which you have lived, nor shall you follow the practice of the Land of Cana’an, to which I am bringing you, and you shall not follow their statutes” (18:3). Rashi (on “and you shall not follow their statutes”): “This refers to their customs, matters which are [social] obligations for them, such as [attending] theaters and stadiums”
            
      Egypt was notorious for its immorality, so why does the possuk need to emphasize the practices of Cana’an too? Practicing immorality is one type of evil, but inciting others to become immoral is even worse. Rashi cites the Chazal about the practices of the Canaanites. Their theatres were places of levity in which immorality was rampant.

            Over the generations different societies have come up with various means of inciting others to stoop to their levels of behavior. When television started becoming widespread people had to be told about all the prohibitions someone who brought this device into his home would be transgressing and the ramifications of ignoring them. More recently the Internet has unfortunately succeeded in ensnaring victims in its venomous net. The possuk is warning us to beware of any anti-Torah “social obligations” which undermine the very fabric of Torah life.

            The Torah in this week’s parasha (20:15) commands us to kill an animal with which immorality has been practiced. The gemoro asks what the animal has done to deserve such punishment and answers that the animal is killed so that passers-by should not say this is the animal, which was responsible for so-and-so’s death by sekilo. We may wonder why it would be such a bad thing for the depraved person to be spoken about.

            The point is that when we see an object of sin it lessens the severity of the sin in our eyes, and can even increase our desire to commit it, especially when it comes to arayos regarding which Chazal tell us that no one has an inbuilt guardian (apotropos) to protect him in this area. The animal has to be killed in order to make sure that people will not see it.

            We are obligated to highlight the terrible repercussions of failing to do whatever we can to prevent us and our families from being exposed to forbidden material, but when someone is already sinning, the possuk in this week’s parasha (19:17) says, You shall certainly rebuke your friend, [but] you shall not bear a sin on his account. When we rebuke someone who is already sinning, instead of talking about the bitterness of their sin, it is more effective to convey to them the incomparably sweet and pleasant lifestyle experienced by those who follow the Torah's directives.

Parents and children


“You shall be holy… you shall fear your mother and father” (19:2-3). 
         
      Anti-Torah forces argue that the younger generation is wiser than its parents. Such propaganda can have terrible effects. Rav Sternbuch remembers hearing children in Eretz Yisroel more than 50 years ago referring to their parents as "chamorim” (donkeys). The Torah is warning us that it is not enough to honor our parents, but we have to fear them, always remembering that the Torah compared the honor we must accord to our parents with that which we accord to Hashem.


The yoke of heaven


“I have distinguished you from the nations to be Mine” (20:26). Rashi: Rabbi Eleazar ben Azariyoh says: From where do we know that a person should not say: "I am disgusted with pig meat, I do not want to wear kilayim", but rather he should say: "I desire it, but what can I do, my Father in Heaven has decreed upon me that I may not? The verse says: "And I have distinguished you from the nations to be mine," that your separation from them should be for My Name's sake -he separates himself from sin and accepts on himself the yoke of the Kingdom of Heaven".
         
   This medrash may be taken as proof of the Maharal’s theory that even though the Jews had accepted the Torah voluntarily and said "na’ase venishmo”, Hashem had turned the mountain on top of them like a barrel, because keeping the commandments by coercion like servants is a higher level.
         
   As pleasant as they are, the mitzvos are first and foremost a yoke, and we are not free agents to desist from them. This acceptance of the yoke of mitzvos is a fundamental component of our faith, and is one reason why a person who performs mitzvos once he is commanded to do so is on a higher level than a person who performs them without being commanded. Those who lack the awareness of this yoke, even if they perform mitzvos, will not attain the same spiritual level or the same reward.