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Rabbi Chaim Coffman
Rabbi Coffman has helped people from all across the spectrum to prepare themselves properly for Orthodox Conversion to Judaism. His students admire his vast knowledge and appreciate his warm, personal attention and endearing sense of humor.
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My Rebbe, Rav Moshe Sternbuch

In case you were wondering why I have all of these articles written by Rav Moshe Sternbuch, he is my Rebbe, and one of the gedolei hador (greatest Rabbis of our generation).

Rav Sternbuch fully endorses me and supports my mentorship program.

He is the address for all of my halachic or hashkafic (practical and philosophical) questions that I or my students may have.

The articles are based on his weekly talks on the Torah portion that the Rav gives in Jerusalem in his kollel. As a member of the kollel I get first dibbs on the photocopies and I type them up for my blog so you can all benefit from the Rav's erudition and insight.
Thursday, August 30, 2012

LOOKING AT OURSELVES


By Rav Moshe Sternbuch


Looking at ourselves

“See, I set before you today day a blessing and a curse" (11:26).

Re’eh – “See” is in the singular: the possuk is addressing each individual, telling them not to look around to see what level others are on, and thus find solace in the fact that they are on a higher level than those around them. Instead, we should look only at ourselves to determine whether we are fulfilling our own specific potential.

Sometimes a person feels satisfied after learning for several hours, even though his specific talents and constitution allow him to learn more than his friend who learns as much as him but is endowed with less talents or stamina. We should only compare ourselves to those around us whose level of avodas Hashem surpasses ours.

I ­- you must be aware that Hashem is the Creator, who runs the world, and life and death, and good and bad in general, are dependent on his Will.

Set before you ­ - in the present tense: we should not feel as if the Torah was given to us thousands of years ago in the wilderness, but as if it is being given to us here and now.

Todaydo not tell yourself that yesterday I exhausted myself learning, I gave a lot of Tzedaka and performed other mitzvahs, today I need to relax a bit, and tomorrow I will get back to my routine. Instead, our task each day is to determine how we can best fulfill the will of Hashem during the coming day. Sometimes this will indeed consist in resting or relaxing, but we have to be honest with ourselves. If we are fully aware that each and every day presents unique and irreplaceable opportunities for grabbing more Torah and mitzvos and acquiring eternal life, any urge to rest will be more likely to stem from a proper desire to strengthen ourselves for our avodas Hashem than from mere laziness.

Mitzvos

“The blessing, that you will heed the commandments of Hashem” (11:27)

According to the plain meaning, this phrase teaches us that the believing person who keeps the mitzvos feels content. He accepts everything that happens to him as the Will of Hashem, and is blessed with peace of mind, unlike the person who does not keep mitzvahs, who becomes frustrated and disgruntled whenever things do not turn out the way he would like them to.

Furthermore, the very fact that we are serving Hashem and keeping mitzvos instead of leading an animalistic existence pursuing vanities is a blessing in and of itself, even without the expectation of any other recompense.

Meisis

“Neither shall you pity him, have mercy upon him, nor shield him” (13:9)
          
  Normally, in the Torah’s criminal law, we have to go out of our way to find something extenuating to save a defendant's life, but in the case of the meisis the opposite is the case: we do not look for any merits, nor give him the benefit of the doubt.

            The most dangerous type of meisis pretends to be religious, but secretly incites others towards heresy (not necessarily idle worship), because such people constitute a threat to the very existence of the Torah.

Kashrus

“You shall not eat any carcass… for you are a holy nation to Hashem” (14:21)

A member of a holy nation is concerned with maintaining the highest levels of kashrus, wherever one may find oneself, be it in a restaurant or a foreign business trip. The possuk warns us not to make do with declarations or kashrus certificates, which are of an insufficiently high standard.

TZEDOKO

“You shall not close your hand from your needy brother” (15:7)

The Vilna Gaon zt”l explains that when we clench our hands together all the fingers appear to be identical in size. Someone who gives the same amount of charity to every person who requests it, without examining the genuine requirements of the specific individual, is transgressing this admonition not to close one’s hand. We cannot assume that each potential recipient requires the same amount from us.

On the other hand, it is true that every applicant should receive something, and, in the merit of not turning anybody away, Hashem will reward us by not checking whether we are indeed "poor" and worthy when we ask Him for help.

“You shall surely give him” (15:10)

A person giving charity should feel as if he is becoming a partner with Hashem, and that the recipient is obtaining what is actually his. Someone who genuinely feels this will give always give tzedoko with joy, regardless of the amount with which he is parting.

Every man shall bring as much as he can afford, according to the blessing of Hashem, your G-d, which He has given you (16:17)
         
   Rav Sternbuch once knew a diamond merchant who admitted that during certain periods he earned almost one million dollars a month, but when Rav Sternbuch asked him for a donation he said that he was not earning so much at the moment because of an economic slump, and he refused to give anything. Rav Sternbuch responded that Hashem had paid him in advance on account, and instead of providing him with a living in dribs and drabs, He had paid him huge amounts in a short period from which he could live comfortably also in the future, so that he was now obliged to pay Hashem back by giving charity out of the funds he had received in advance - for now.

            The possuk here states that if someone has been the recipient of a blessing of Hashem “which He has given him”, i.e.  in the past,  he must continue to give as he did in the past, and not claim to be exempt from the commandment of giving tzedoko because he currently has no earnings. Anyone acting in this way would be showing disrespect and lack of gratitude for Hashem's kindness to him in the past.

SHEVET LEVI

“And you shall rejoice before Hashem, your G-d, you… and the Levi who is within your cities, and the stranger, and the orphan, and the widow, who are among you” (16:11)
         
   Since the Levi appears in this possuk before the stranger, the orphan and the widow, he would appear to be more important than them. Why is that so?

            When Rav Sternbuch was a boy in Rav Schneider’s yeshiva during World War II, there was nothing to eat, and the Rosh Yeshiva sent him to collect money. Some people gave some donations, but others refused, saying that the yeshiva bochurim should go out to work like everybody else and stop being batlonim (idle people).

            The Levi has no property of his own, and is totally dependent on presents from the rest of the nation. In the rotation of the 24 mishmoros a Levi worked in the Beis Hamikdosh for one day at a time twice a year, but he had to remain free and available for avodas Hashem the rest of the time. The Torah recognizes that people may not appreciate the importance of supporting levi’im (or full-time Torah learners as the Rambam points out), and therefore they take priority even over helpless people such as strangers orphans and widows, because both the spiritual and material existence of the nation depends on their continued undisturbed avodas Hashem

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